책을 읽으면 읽을 수록 넓은 면에 작은 덩어리 덩어리를 만들고,  간혹 한 번 씩 각각 떨어져 있던 작은 덩어리 들 사이에 실 같은 얇은 선이 연결되는 느낌이다. '어떤 하나'를 기대 하고 읽은 책이 아님에도, 다른 책에서 읽었던 핵심 키워드 같은 부분이 그 속에 은근히 녹아있다. 소설을 읽음에도 비문학, 자기계발에 관한 서적에서 얻었던 내용을 느끼면서 깨달음을 얻는다. 그러한 과정이 반복(Repetition)되어 단기기억에서 장기기억으로 하나씩 스멀스멀 넘어간다. 이러한 기억들이 나에게 외적으로 내적으로 붙어 내자신을 크게 만들고, 성장하게 만든다. 이것은 기회이자 위험이다. 외적으로 내적으로 무식하게 붙기만 하여, 풍선처럼 커다랗게 부푼 모습을 보며, 경외감을 느끼기 보다는 이질감을 느끼는 것이 더욱 클 것이기 때문이다. 키우는 것이 중요하지 않은 것은 아니다. 현재 나의 모습에서 필요없는 부분을 깎아내리는 것은 그 깎는 부분이 적을지 몰라도, 디테일함이 없으면 완전히 깎아낼 수 없다. 반대로 나의 몸집을 키웠을때는 그 필요없는 부분도 커지게 되어 위험하지만, 반대로 말하면 커진 만큼 쉽게 깎아 낼 수있다. 사소한 작은 것 하나하나는 바꾸기 힘들지만 커다란 잘못은 나도 쉽게 인지하여 바꿀 수 있다.   그냥 생각나는데로 적다보니 , 학교에서 하는 단편 소설을 써야겠다는 생각이 들며, 아이디어도 샘 솟는다. 깎아냄과, 몸집을 키움, 그리고 우리사회의 스펙 이나 능력, 자기계발 등을 외적인 것으로 보여주는 식의 스토리가 떠오른다. 게임 같은 것은 아무리 소소한활동을 해도 자그마한 보상이라도 직접적으로 주어진다. 습관의 힘에서 나온 것이지만 Cue- Routine - Reward 의 과정이 이루어진다. 그러나 자기계발이나 능력적인 측면에서는 그러한 가시적인 결과가 보이는 것이 아님에 이것을 보이는 것으로 적용한다면 흥미로울 것 같다는 생각이 갑자기 들었다. 또한 Youtube 를 통해 ucc FGG 또한.ㅣ

2013.8.1. 영짱. Topic; Happier when money is spent on activities than products

2013.8.1 TOPIC

Happier when money is spent on activities than products

By Isaac Kim

“Using money on activities rather than purchasing objects will give you more happiness.”

French novelist Francois Lelord, 60, author of the bestseller Voyage d’Hector ou La Recherche Du Bonheur, is visiting here and met with readers.

Celebrating the release of his new novel, Hector Et Les Secrets De L’amour, Lelord visited Institut Francais in Seoul and answered questions on happiness and peace.

“Memories of joy and glee last longer when learning something, traveling, or going out on weekends,” he explained. “Buying new things does bring pleasure, but the feeling diminishes when you begin comparing them to material items.”

When questioned about which happiness to pursue, he replied, “Eating chips and watching TV, going to see the opera, or reading Shakespeare are all sources of happiness. In the latter case, it educates and trains you to focus on a high dimensional state, which gives you a more profound happiness.

“But sometimes, you have to do whatever you feel like doing,” he concluded as the audience burst into laughter.

A college student asked Lelord if a person should conform to what society demands or pursue his or her own interests. Lelord replied, “Do what you want and pursue happiness. Keep in mind you could fail and still be unhappy. However, failure is a right in itself.”

Question

1.Where are you going to go the next time you travel?

- Who with?

- How long will you stay?

2.What is the most interesting souvenir that you have ever bought on one of your holidays?

3.Do you prefer active or relaxing holidays? Why?

4.If you had $100,000, where would you spend?(concerning travel or item)

My Answer.

1. I'd like to do traveling to 'Las Vagas' . Of course not, I'll not go casino. It is just to see CES in January 2014. CES means Consumer electronic show. Samsung, Google, and famous company participated in CES. There is innovation of technology.  I'll maybe go alone. I'd like to stay my whole life. but I'll stay a week in reality. I am making money. continuousj

2. Wrong Answer. There are my running shoese to buy last year. running shouse are product at the same time there are item for activity. I was happy to buy shoes, I was happy to do running ,too. the other words 일타쌍피 in Korean.

    

    Doing Answer.  I understood wrong this question. in my case I was staying 백령 island to do military service. This place is famous 액기스 of 민들레 . What is 민들레 in English? 

I didn't eat extract of dandelions. It ate my parents. It effects for stamina for man or woman.

3. I don't mind either one. in my case then I do running on early moring; dawn. or early evening. then I 'm relaxing in my house. 

4. this question didn't say because of time.

 There are 100,000,000 wons in Korea. in my case, first of all I spent 12 millions won on university fees. is this learning something, isn't this? this is activities, isn't this? but I don't feel happy. This is unique case. anyway. I'm going to do swimming, climbing and buy 10 books every month. add expences then there are 210,000 wons every month. There are 17 billions won on my whole life. I have 70 millions won after doing them. I don't know expences about traveling to U.S.A, now. however, I'd like to do traveling to U.S.A.